Father VS Mother in Baby's Right-to-Life Case

Baby's Right-to-Life Case Pits Father Against Mother | Christianpost.com

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Parents—Don’t Leave Teaching to the Church

Another helpful article from our friends at AIG. Parents have the most important role in helping children understand God, faith and Scripture.

Parents—Don’t Leave Teaching to the Church - Answers in Genesis

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Prison Term for Inking Your Child

A man is facing life in prison for putting a tattoo on his minor child. (Of course, it is a gang symbol.) Hie attorney asks some interesting questions regarding things like circumcision and ear piercings on babies.

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What are your thoughts"

Alfie Kohn wrote an article trying to get parents to think in terms other then punishment and reward when working with a child's behavior. I believe that Scripture speaks clearly to the issue of parenting, and particularly discipline. Children should learn "first time" obedience. However, some of what he says is very helpful and probably things that parents should think about regarding their own attitudes in dealing with a child's behavior.

Here are his 10 basic guidelines:

1. Reconsider your requests.
Sometimes when kids don’t do what we tell them, the problem isn’t with the kids but with what we’re telling them to do.

2. Put the relationship first.
What matters more than any of the day-to-day details is the connection that we have — or don’t have — with our children over the long haul, whether they trust us and know that we trust them.

3. Imagine how things look from your child’s perspective.
Parents who regularly switch to the child’s point of view are better informed, gentler and more likely to set an example of perspective-taking for their children (which is the cornerstone of moral development).

4. Be authentic.
Your child needs a human — flawed, caring and vulnerable — more than he or she needs someone pretending to be a crisply competent Perfect Parent.

5. Talk less, ask more.
Telling is better than yelling, and explaining is better than just telling, but sometimes eliciting (the child’s feelings, ideas, and preferences) is even better than explaining.

6. “Attribute to children the best possible motive consistent with the facts.”
Nel Noddings reminds us that kids will live up to, or down to, our expectations, so it’s better to assume the best when we don’t know for sure why they did what they did.

7. Try to say yes.
Don’t function on autoparent and unnecessarily deny children the chance to do unusual things. People don’t get better at coping with frustration as a result of having been deliberately frustrated when they’re young.

8. Don’t be rigid.
Predictability can be overdone; the apparent need for inflexible rules may vanish when we stop seeing a troubling behavior as an infraction that must be punished and start seeing it as a problem to be solved (together).

9. Give kids more say about their lives.
Children learn to make good decisions by making decisions, not by following directions. Our default response should be to let them choose — unless there’s a compelling reason to deny them that opportunity.

10. Love them unconditionally.
Kids should know that we care for them just because of who they are, not because of what they do. Punishments (like time outs) and rewards (like praise) may communicate that they have to earn our love — which is exactly the opposite of what children need, psychologically speaking.

Eric the Clown

I am the father is a clown.

Family Reunion? Well, of Sorts.

What should we think about this? Former NBA player Kenny Anderson coordinated with the five women who are the mothers of his seven children to get the kids together. The story is here.

How Do You Know God?

To know God out of Christ is to know Him as an enemy, but to know Him in Christ is sweet and delicious. Thomas Watson